How to be a Cottagecore Girl || Diary of a 30+ year old

While I still have to battle those negative, limiting thoughts from others around me who would police what I can or can’t wear because of my age or their stigma of cottagecore fashion or Lolita fashion or even the soft-girl pastel aesthetic, I learned that just because that is their view or definition or their truth it doesn’t have to be mine.

This is why I love the Cottagecore aesthetic because a lot of it is centered around living a life enjoying the small things around you or surrounding yourself with things that bring you joy and happiness and enjoy these different aesthetics do just that for me~

So if you don’t have a safe space to be able to enjoy and search for cottagecore, lolita, soft-girl aesthetic things then no worries because that’s why I made my blog!

Aren’t they so cute? Let’s have fun window shopping and just enjoying looking at all the aesthetic things that makes us happy!  

I found them all from and while they are on the higher cost end they are all super detail and super cute for that soft-lolita cottagecore girl~

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It’s okay if your Cottagecore style doesn’t fit what others classify as cottagecore, if it lines up with you and your own personal perspective of cottagecore then that’s all that matters~